The Greasers and Socials are about to RUMBLE!
In rumbles, people get hurt and could possibly die.
Is fighting the best way to solve a problem?
What are other possible ways of solving an external conflict?
Have you ever been in a conflict with someone? How did you resolve it?
Explain.
Fighting is definitely not the best way to solve a conflict. When you are in an argument with someone, fighting against them will only make you angrier towards that person, and things definitely won't end well. It's better just to talk things out, and admit that you did something wrong and apologize, instead of hurting each other. Whenever I am in a conflict with someone, I either just brush it off and forget about it, since I don't like holding grudges, or talk about like I mentioned earlier to avoid any other arguments.
ReplyDeleteThat is some very good advice for people who get into a lot of fights/conflicts. GREAT BLOG!!!!!!!!!!!
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i toataly agree, fighting only makes u angrier, good blog !
DeleteI believe that fighting is not the best possible way to solve a problem. I believe that because fighting doesn't get you anywhere. Like, think about it for a minute, if you fight how is that going to solve your problem? Another possible way to solve external conflicts is, talking. It will definitely help solve your problems because you will get to express the way you feel about the situation. I have been in many conflicts with this one person who is very close to me, my younger brother. To start off his name is Devon. I get into many, many, many, many, many, many fights with him. The way our parents make us stop fighting is by making us talking to each other. By that I mean, saying how we feel about what the other person did or said, saying you're sorry and then hug it out. That usually works, but we just constantly get into fights because we are brother and sister.
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You're right fighting doesn't get you anywhere.
DeleteGreat Blog Caitlin!!!!! :)
That's true, you should always talk it out.
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I know exactly what you are going through! I have the same issues with my brother...
DeleteGreat Blog! :)
I think that fighting is definitely not the solution to a problem. If you are angry at a person because they did something to hurt you (mentally or physically) then you should talk to them about it and to someone else. I think that if the greasers and the socials would open up and just explain how they are feeling then they would most likely get along. I’ve been in many conflicts with people and I’ve learned that there is always a solution. To solve the conflict you must first get help from someone you trust. Then make sure you do not show any violence when solving the problem. Always talk (-without using harsh words-) to the person and try to solve the conflict together.
ReplyDeleteYes, fighting it is definitely not a good way to solve a problem.
DeleteI absolutely agree that you always need to talk to someone that you TRUST!! Awesome blog!!
DeleteI agree fighting is not the solution to solve a problem.
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ReplyDeleteI believe that fighting is not the answer and that we all can solve our problems. I think that you should always talk it out before you fight because There is no point in fighting if you do not even understand the other person. I have gotten into arguments with my sibling but we always talk it out and solve our problems. I think that you should always try to be peaceful to others and always try to treat others as you would like to be treated.
Talking is the best way. Nice blog!
DeleteI agree. You should always try and understand someone before starting to make assumptions. Great blog, and good points
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Talking it out never fails. Great Blog.
DeleteFighting isint the best way to solve problems, i know from experience. Holding a grudge over someone, getting made fun of, i witnessed and felt it all. Sometimes fighting is the solution, but almost every solutuion comes with a problem. People say talking it out with someone is one of the best things to do, i extremly disagree, not many people have the courage to go up to someone and talk to them. Theyre afraid, afraid that something will go wrong. I say the best thing to do is never talk to that person again. I say this because if you dont even want to talk to them in the first place, why would talk to them again. To me it dosent make sense. For example, i got into a big fist fight with someone, we both got in trouble and we never talked to eachother again, until last year when we realised that this whole situation is stupid and we became friends. So yes talking can help, but not always, in this case i guess it did, but in some cases, it wont.
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Fights and violence are never good ways to solve arguments, conflicts or disagreements. I believe that the best way to solve a conflict is to talk it out. I think that talking with the person we disagree with and trying to solve the problem is better than fighting with the person and never getting anything solved.
ReplyDeleteI’ve been in a few conflicts and arguments. Some were with my friends, but most of them were with my sister. I adore my sister Jordan, but sometimes, we argue about the stupidest things. I guess brothers and sisters argue a lot. But no matter what, we never solve our conflicts with violence. Most of the time, we just stay in our separate rooms until we’re completely calm. Then we apologize to each other and move on. Violence is never the answer.
I think that fighting is definitly not the best solution and there are so many different ways you can resolve an issue with someone. Violence isn't always the best idea. Maybe if u do some activities and games and talk to the person things will be better. I don't really like getting into situations like this and I try to stay away as much as possible but if there is a situation when I am mad at someone I will probably try to talk to the person and the person will probably not talk back(haha) but I would never get violent
ReplyDeleteAgreed, talking to the person will help. -good blog!
DeleteFighting is definitely not the best way to solve a problem. Actually, I believe that we should only use fighting for self defense, in an important time of need. There are many different ways to resolve external conflict that can be done in a peaceful manner. I think that communication is really important and that it is best to try and reason with the other person. Negotiation and coming to a solution that both people can agree to can be difficult, but is the best way in my opinion to achieve a solution.
ReplyDeleteOf course, everyone has been in a conflict with someone else at least once in their lifetime. I often have fights with my brother. Normally my parents have to step in to get us to talk to one another to sort things out. Although, we should probably do a better job at working things out for ourselves!
Fighting is definitely not the answer! Honestly the greasers and socials aren't really in a conflict they are more rivals. When I've been in a conflict it has for some reason always ended kind of oddly. I don't mean like badly or anything just oddly.. Once in elementary school this girl and I had been friends for quite a while but she would always get mad for no reason and would just start getting mad and screaming at me with no explanation. So one day I decided that I didn't want to be friends with her anymore because it had been three years at that point of her just being rude to me and I got tired of it. (I had been tired for a while but just never had the guts to say anything). But it ended oddly I can't really explain it was just odd. Anyways the most important thing about this is to remember that that fighting is wrong and any time that you are in a conflict and you don't think that you can resolve it just talking it out with someone tell an adult and try and keep yourself out of the situation as much as possible so don't work with them on project at school for example. Even just talking about it makes you calm down when you are i a situation where it can't be fixed.
ReplyDeleteFighting is not the best solution to a problem. It is both dangerous and unnecessary. People could get really hurt or you could die. Would you rather get really hurt in a fight or solve the problem by talking? You could solve the problem by talking. If you get a chance to explain your self or the other person gets to explain them selves. I have been in many conflicts with my brother. We usually talk and end up laughing at the end of our conflict.
ReplyDeleteThat's the best way to end a conflict: with laughter! Great blog!
DeleteGood solution: laughter! Great blog Brianna!
DeleteI don’t think that fighting is the best way to solve a conflict. Other possible ways of solving a conflict would be to have a conversation about the problem, leave the other person alone for a bit of time. Fighting could hurt yourself and the other person, it not only hurts a person physically but it also hurts a person emotionally. When I had a conflict with a girl we resolved it by talking it out and we became friends again. Violence isn’t the key to anything and no one should ever ruin a friendship or anything else because of a conflict that ends with violence.
ReplyDeleteFighting is definitely NOT the best way to solve a problem! Mostly because people will 100% get hurt whether it be a scratch or a bruise, or even bleeding! I know there are many other possible ways of solving an external conflict, including communication. If everyone would just solve a problem by talking the world wouldn't be such a violent place. I get into a conflict with people everyday, it’s pretty much just my parents though. We always resolve the conflict by talking, or them taking away my devices, but in every conflict you can’t just take things away from the person that disagreed with you.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe that fighting is the best way to solve a problem because it will always end up with someone hurt. The most reasonable way to solve an external conflict is to talk because then no one will get injured and you can make the other person understand your point of view which will solve the problem quicker. I have been in a conflict before either with one of my friends or with my brother. If it's a fight with my friend, usually we are angry at each other for a day or maybe even two, but then we forget about it quickly. No one apologizes, we just pretend like nothing ever happened. If it's with my brother, we always fight over small things like the TV or the computer, but after an hour, we forget everything and we don't hold any grudges.
ReplyDeleteI find that fighting is the worst way to solve a problem or a conflict. Fighting with the person that you have a conflict with will only cause them to get angry and will definitely cause more problems than previously. A way that everyone should resolve a problem or a conflict is just to talk things out with one another and resolve it that way. I've been in conflicts before and I found it so much better when I talked it out with that person. But sometimes, talking it out won’t always help so what I do is just let it be and brush it off.
ReplyDeleteTalking things out is always a great way to solve a problem. Great blog
DeleteI think fighting isn't the best way to solve a conflict but sometimes its the only solutions. The best way to solve a conflict is to talk it out depending the situation.Fighting can be very dangerous and just makes things worse. Yes i have been in a conflict before and we didn't fight or talk it out we just didn't talk for a couple of days without any drama or anything and then we forgave each other. That is the easiest way to solve a conflict but sometimes it doesn't always work.
ReplyDeleteI really liked how you mentioned that it may be the only solution. Nice blog.
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DeleteI agree with the possibility that fighting is the only solution
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I believe that fighting is the WORST way to solve a problem after all it only ends up hurting people and it can start bigger problems. But sometimes it is the only option (in very extreme cases) for example if somebody has a hostage and won't release them people might have to resort to violence. Other ways to solve a problem can just be talking it out sending a gift to make somebody feel better or the Canadian way, say "sorry" until the other persons has to forgive you. I've never really been in any big conflicts, I've only ever been in scenarios where somebody was angry at me for something and we just talked it out and I find that that always works.
ReplyDeleteI believe that fighting is not a good way to solve problems because they always end up badly.Ex:.broken ribs and bones and bruses and cuts etc and you can end up somewhere you dont want to be you can kindly talk to them and you don't have to solve it with punches you can talk calmly and not be violent
ReplyDeleteI think that fighting is not the best way to solve a problem they always end up with someone getting hurt and people getting into trouble. But the greasers didn't really have a choice, they weren't going to tell someone. The best way to solve your problem is to tell someone or man up and say sorry till they believe you. I've never been in a conflict before and I never want to be in one.
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I find that fighting isn't the greatest way to solve a problem. If you do end up fighting you usually get into really big trouble. You also don't know what the other person is going through and how mad they are.I do believe that if you have to protect yourself from getting hit or injured, then it's okay to solve the problem by blocking them from not getting to you. I've never been in a real conflict before and hopefully I will never get in to a very serious one.
ReplyDeleteFighting is only a good solution if the person your having a conflict with won't comply to anything else you try. You can always solve a conflict by discussing it with the person or by making agreements. I personally had one conflict on grade 3, I used to have a bully and he wouldn't stop. So I ended up reporting him so that resolved the problem.
ReplyDeleteFighting is a really bad way to solve a problem. You always talk about your problems with the person and try to solve it. Once when I was 8 this girl would always call me names and eat my food. Also her friend would call me names. I always told the monitor people (at camp) when it happened but they did nothing about it.
ReplyDeleteI agree. And thats a better way to solve things than fighting.
Deletegenerally fighting in my opinion is not the best way to solve to solve a problem. However this may not apply to others some dislike talk or have a better reason to fight. Thinking of how I would solve a problem is odd because I do not often end up in that type of situation where I have find some elaborate apology or plan. I’m pretty sure if I had a conflict it would just be me getting in trouble and I would just reply with ok or yeah your right. I think I found myself once in spot where I was disputing with my friend and we both had a point that was fair.
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ReplyDeleteFighting is not a way to solve things. You can just talk it over! Nothing good comes out fighting. People getting hurt and maybe dying is not helping anything. I have been in many conflicts. I solved most of verbally (except some with my brother where is hurts me and I get badly hurt most of the time but I dont hurt him). I'm not at all a nice person but I wont hurt people. I also wont cause them social harm cause I know how that feels.(my wifi broke when i tried to post this so posting it now)
ReplyDeleteI think I would probably spend my snow either at fairview mall or jumping outside in the snow. But instead I spent my snow shoveling my drive way. Nothing but shoveling my drive way. I think I would miss myou friends most fromantic school because without my friends I wouldn't be the same.
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